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Now that you’ve proposed, and she said “yes,”
you’ve set a whirlwind of events into motion. Once you get
over your surprise that she said “yes,” and pick yourself up
off the floor, you’ll begin to notice that things have
changed.
Your beloved is now in a different
world. Her world. She is in the planning frenzy of the
bride-to-be. There is little that you can do from now on
except observe from the sidelines in amazement as she makes
calls, looks through catalogs, meets with friends, and chats
endlessly about flower and music selections, dresses and
styles, and the logistics of coordinating a seemingly
endless number of events and activities.
You may be fortunate enough to go through all of this only
once; I have been through it twice, and my advice is
basically to stay out of the way. Even though the wedding is
for both of you, if you’re a typical groom, you know that as
guys the only thing we really care about is making the bride
happy. Most of us couldn’t care less if the flowers are
yellow or pink. We don’t have to get the right vibes from
the photographer like she does. Any photographer who can
take pictures will do. If you always remember that it is her
day, you’ll know what to do.
However, if the style of what you wear is important to you,
get your tuxedo right away. Get it before she has time to
have set ideas about what you should wear. You don’t want to
wait and end up having to match your style with the
bridesmaids’ dresses. By selecting your tux to go with your
own taste and preferences, she has to consider your style in
her own selections. She also won’t be able to force you to
wear a pink cummerbund if you’ve already picked out one in
the color your prefer.
The All-Important Ring
Get a good ring, as this will save you money in the long
run. Wedding-Day-Planner.com and other websites offer a wide
selection of wedding rings in different sizes, styles, price
ranges, and materials. Choose carefully and get a good ring.
You want to get a high-quality ring, not one with a poor
setting. You don’t want the diamond to fall down the drain,
wasting good money. Since men tend to be hard of hearing,
this bears repetition a third time: Get a good ring.
Accessories
Accessorize for less by using the web. Wedding-Day-Planner.com,
for example, offers more than 12,000 items as well as rings,
from ties to chocolates. Since they operate in conjunction
with Amazon.com, the service is great. You can get most of
what you order within a couple of days, which is hard to
beat. It’s certainly better than traveling from one store to
another. Shopping on foot can be very painful, especially
for us guys.
Check out the Internet store and you'll probably come up
with some cool ideas that she'll appeciate. And one last
thing: relax. The hard part is over. The woman that makes
your heart beat harder said “yes.” Even if preparation for
the wedding drives you nuts at times, just remember it's her
day and it's all about making her happy. And when Mama's
happy, everybody else is happy, too, including you.
Welcome to marriage! It gets even better. Remember that you
don’t have to do the planning; that's what she does. But
when you participate and have your say, she knows you’re
with her in it and that you're in it for life. And that’s
what she really wants in the end.
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From all of us here at engagement rings guide - For the
celebration that is uniquely yours - may your engagement,
wedding and the rest of your life be filled with happiness.
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